How Can I Save a Doomed Marriage?

Each year in America alone, nearly 1 million marriages end in divorce.This is an incredible number! That would be as if all the citizens of Houston Texas were divorced (each divorce leaves 2 people).

The question is how many of those marriages could be saved. Unfortunately, that is an invisible number. If your marriage stays together, it is hard to find in the statistics. As Marian Wright Edelman wrote, statistics are stories with the tears washed off.

Can your marriage be saved? If I could answer that, I would be a wealthy man. I can tell you that if your marriage is in trouble and you do nothing, the outcome is guaranteed. If you do something, there is a much better chance that your marriage will be saved.

And I can tell you, in four simple steps what you can do to save your marriage. You can start right now. But you must understand that I said "simple." That is not the same as "easy." These steps are not easy. They do, however, give you a path that you must follow if you want to change the destiny of a marriage in trouble.

How Can I Save a Doomed Marriage?

For whatever reasons a lot of  marriages can end in complete chaos. One question I receive from many who experience a bad marriage is "how can I save a doomed marriage?". Well the first mistake you're making there is that there is no such thing as a doomed marriage.

When people start wondering how they can save their doomed marriage, they are already in the wrong mindset. There is no such thing as a doomed marriage, since just about EVERY marriage can be saved. Many do not want to try to save their marriage, they just consider it doomed and ended. Here are some tips that can help you save your marriage.

How Can I Save a Doomed Marriage Tip #1

Make a list of what's wrong. This may sound corny, or something out of a sappy movie. But believe it or not, it actually do works. Sit down with your spouse and each of you make a list of what is wrong. Then discuss how to fix those problems. Don't argue, come to consensus with each other. Have a serious conversation.

How Can I Save a Doomed Marriage Tip #2

With your list of what you believe is wrong, share them with each other. Read them out loud to each other. After each reason, come to a solution with each other of how you can change that, or make it better. This way, you do not skip any problems that you may possibly have in your marriage.
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